Rabu, 27 November 2013

Art

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facts about the piano

Here are 10 unique and interesting facts about the piano that you may not know:

1.The famous Steinway pianos that have become the benchmark for well-crafted pianos could have had a completely different name. Henry Steinway changed his name from Engelhard Steinweg after arriving in the United States and starting his own company.
2.While a piano may seem like a simple instrument to operate, it has more than 12,000 parts, 10,000 of which are moving. The extensive number of moving parts is one reason why tuning a piano can be such an involved process.
3.Every piano has a mechanism that moves the hammers back to their original position as soon as they touch the strings. Without this mechanism, the hammers would simply sit on the strings and dampen the sound.
4.In comparison to many other instruments, the piano is relatively new. It was invented in 1698 by Bartolomeo Cristofori in Italy.
5.The piano has earned the moniker “The King of Instruments” primarily for its wide tonal range. The piano can reach the lowest note of the contrabassoon and the highest note of the piccolo. There is no other orchestral instrument that can match its complete tonal range.
6.There are more than 10 million pianos in homes, businesses, and other institutions throughout the United States.
7.A standard piano has about 230 strings, each of which has about 165 pounds of tension. The combined tension of the strings is more than 18 tons. For the concert grand piano, that number increases to more than 30 tons.
8.Piano inventor Bartolomeo Cristofori made very few pianos and instead chose to focus on the harpsichord.
9.Piano keys were originally made from ivory, thus the origin of the phrase, “tickle the ivories.” This lasted until the 1950s, when cost and environmental concerns caused piano makers to switch to plastic keys.
10.A new piano needs to be tuned at least four times in the first year. Seasonal changes in temperature and humidity will cause the piano to go out of tune. After the first year, it should be tuned twice a year.

It’s never too late to start learning how to play the piano. The sheer breadth of literature available makes it really easy to jump in at any time.
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Facts About Coffee

Eighty-three percent of adults in America drink coffee. It’s the world’s second-most traded commodity, and it’s delicious. But there’s more to the country’s favorite hot beverage than meets the eye. From the sublime to the horrifying, coffee is a fascinating natural resource that has had a profound cultural impact around the world.
10 Deadly Coffee Crime Wave In Kenya

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An epidemic of theft and violence is sweeping the coffee industry in Kenya, a country where a kilo of dried beans can be worth a week’s wages. A special police force has been set up to deal with the problem, but raids by armed gangs are a daily occurrence. Coffee growers are being forced to sleep in their fields so they can fend off would-be thieves. The thieves aren’t subtle, with reports of security guards at coffee factories being shot with arrows and beaten to death with branches. Villagers have taken to fighting fire with fire, and criminals caught in the act have been lynched in the street.

While coffee is grown on tens of thousands of small farms throughout the country, exports are only managed through licensed operations. The coffee thieves are able to make money because of corruption reaching right to the top of the tree. With 5 million people in Kenya dependent on the coffee industry to make a living, it’s a daunting issue for the government to overcome.
9 Coffee Rust Devastates Central America

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Coffee rust is a fungal disease that attacks the leaves of the coffee plant. It gets its name from the distinctive orange patches it causes. The disease, which has blighted crops since the 19th century, eventually kills the plants and is a threat to the livelihoods of farmers around the world. The Arabica plant, favored by coffee connoisseurs, is coffee rust’s main victim, and countries that grow Arabica beans are currently suffering an epidemic.

In February 2013, Guatemala declared a state of agricultural emergency due to coffee rust and has provided $14 million for farmers to buy pesticides. Seventy percent of their national crop has been impacted, and there are similar circumstances throughout the region. Unfortunately, that means you may end up having to pay more for a decent cup of coffee in the next couple of years.
8 Coffee Contains Caffeine To Attract Bees

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Every other coffee list on the Internet will tell you that coffee was discovered by goat herders, whose goats got a little jolly after munching on coffee berries. But why does coffee contain caffeine to begin with? Well, it’s toxic to slugs and other pests, but it turns out it also has an effect on pollinators such as bees. In fact, scientists think they get—wait for it—a buzz from the caffeine in the flowers of plants.

Scientists found that consuming caffeine helped bees to improve their long-term memories. The caffeine acts on the brain chemistry of bees in a way that makes the flowers more memorable, so the bees are more likely to return to plants of the same type. Though bees and humans are very different, some experts suggest the capacity to be affected by caffeine could be as old as the common ancestors we share, as it impacts our neurological activity on a very fundamental level.
7 Ethiopian Coffee Ceremony

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The Ethiopian coffee ceremony, or bunna, is a key part of home and social life. It is a process of preparation that can take hours. It starts with the washing of coffee beans and ends with ceremonially pouring the drink into cups. The ceremony is practiced by women in Ethiopian culture, and girls are taught from a young age how the ritual is performed. It is observed at least daily, and starting the coffee ritual is the standard way to welcome visitors to the home.

The ceremony starts with fresh, green beans that are roasted in a pan while fragrant flowers are burned to provide a pleasant aroma. After that, coffee is prepared and poured into cups containing sugar, salt, or butter. It is sometimes offered at Ethiopian restaurants in the US, the UK, and elsewhere.
6 Coffee Overdose And Addiction

Coffee addiction

Caffeine, like any drug, is toxic in large enough doses. The lethal dose of caffeine would require about 100 cups of coffee, and the water from drinking that much coffee in one go would kill you before the caffeine did.

That said, there’s still enough caffeine in coffee to make you ill, especially if you’re not used to it. A 17-year-old girl in England was hospitalized after drinking seven double espressos. She suffered mood swings, raised temperature, and palpitations. She said the experience has put her off coffee for good. The other risk of over-indulging is caffeinism, an addiction that is defined as needing six or more cups of ground coffee per day.

5 Coffee Ban In 17th-Century England

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Coffee first reached England in the 17th century, served in coffee houses around the country—there were 82 in London alone by the mid-1660s. But coffee wasn’t popular with everyone. A group of women, frustrated by the lack of virility in their men, claimed coffee “made men as unfruitful as the deserts.” This campaign by “several Thousands of Buxome Good-Women, Languishing in Extremity of Want,” as they called themselves, combined with concerns from other quarters, saw King Charles attempt to ban the drink in 1675.

The people were very unhappy with this decision, and Charles quickly forgot about the idea. Coffee houses went on to become the meeting places of the scientific and literary worlds, frequented by people like Isaac Newton, Robert Hooke, Samuel Johnson, and Alexander Pope.
4 Latte Art And Tasting Competition

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People will compete at pretty much anything, even hot drinks. It’s that competitive spirit that gives us the World Cup Tasters Championship. In this event, participants aim to use smell and taste to identify different coffees from around the world as quickly as possible.

Coffee tasting is just one competition held in the annual World Coffee Event, which took place this year in Nice, France. Latte art is among the most impressive, and certainly the easiest to appreciate over the internet. Using nothing but hot milk and espresso, latte artists work to create intricate designs on the surface of the drink. Swirls and leaves are popular, but some artists produce pictures of dragons, cartoon characters, and teddy bears, the last being too adorable to even consider drinking.
3 Coffee In Pregnancy

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Advice on what and what not to consume during pregnancy is rampant, and coffee falls into the camp of things a lot of women are told they should avoid. Much of the reason for this is that data shows that women who drink less coffee have healthier pregnancies. While that seems clear-cut, it’s far from it. Women who suffer more nausea also have healthier pregnancies, and anyone suffering nausea is unlikely to fancy a caramel latte with sprinkles.

The best data available appears to show no evidence of causation between coffee drinking and problems below around three cups of coffee each day.
2 Re-Using Coffee Grounds

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Only about 20 percent of the coffee bean contributes to the flavor and aroma of the drink—the rest is tasteless plant fiber. That means that there’s a lot of stuff left over when coffee is produced—hundreds of thousands of tons of it a day. Scientists are working hard to come up with a useful way to use the waste.

Researchers at the Maine Technology Institute have investigated ways to turn spent coffee grounds into fuel pellets to be burned for energy, and one coffee production company already sends its waste to a nearby biomass plant to be burned along with wood.

Another group of scientists has devised a way to use coffee grounds to produce an alcoholic drink, by fermenting the grounds and distilling them in a method similar to the production of whiskey. The result is a beverage the makers claim has “organoleptic quality acceptable for human consumption.” They might need to work on a tagline.
1 Coffee Contamination

Poison coffee

Coffee rust is not the only fungus that can affect coffee plants. Ochratoxin A is toxic poison produced by Aspergillus and Penicillium fungi that grow on coffee plants. The amount of acceptable ochratoxin is controlled in Europe, with an acceptable level of five parts per billion for ground coffee, and 10 parts per billion for instant, because who cares about instant coffee drinkers anyway? Its presence in coffee was only discovered in 1988, and a study shortly afterward found that 7 percent of shipments were over this safe level. Work by the Food and Agriculture Organization of the UN helped farmers to reduce the average level found in exports by over 25 percent between 1998 and 2004.

Ochratoxin is not the only poison found in coffee. In 2003, one man was killed and 15 people were hospitalized with suspected food poisoning. Doctors eventually deduced that the cause of the illness wasn’t sandwiches, as initially thought, but someone poisoning the coffee pot with arsenic.
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Step by Step Tutorial on Photo Editing with the Clone Tool in PicsArt

This is a fun new photo editing/photo cloning feature that will open up a whole new door of creativity for our users! We always seek to develop new ways in which our artists can more freely express themselves, and this brand new and unique photo editing tool is one of our favorites.

Clone Tool is, as you might guess, an image cloning feature that will allow you to multiply a piece of your photo or image and even delete it altogether, giving you greater control over how your finished art will look. It works by copying part of your image and applying it to another part. You select the area to be cloned by using a brush, so there are no limits to what size, shape, or type of area you may clone. Photo cloning is used by many professional photo editors, so using the Clone Tool will be a great primer for all the aspiring editors out there!

There are a number of ways in which you can apply the Clone Tool to your PicsArt images, with some being more practical and others being more creative. The most practical way to apply image cloning is to use it to hide things in your image; by ‘copying’ areas of your photo and applying them to other areas, you can remove something that crept into your photo without permission. On the other hand, you can also use this photo editing feature to make super-creative abstracts and fascinating photo edits.

Step by Step Tutorial on How to Use the Clone Tool
Step 1: How to Select a Photo.

Click on “Photo” from the main menu of the PicsArt app, and select the image that you’d like to use.
Step 2: How to find the Clone Tool.

Scroll down to the “Tools” button on the right hand side of the screen, and select it. Click on “Clone” in the pop-up menu.

Step 3: How to Select an Object to Clone.

Click on the part of your photograph that you would like to multiply. This might be a particular object, like two dice.
Step 4: How to Apply Clone Tool.

Click on the area that you’d like to multiply the object into, and start to brush. If you have clicked in the top left hand corner of the object, brush to the right and down; you need to brush over the whole of the object!
Step 5: How to Adjust Brush Settings.

Click on the “Brush” icon in the toolbar and adjust your brush settings so that the brush is smaller.

Step 6: How to Make Finer Details and Save Your Photo Edits.

Repeat steps 3 and 4 to clone the finer details of your objects and to multiply smaller objects in your image. Now click the "Checkmark" in the bottom right hand corner, then select the Disk icon to save your image!

Once you’ve explored what this new photo cloning feature can do, remember to upload your pics to PicsArt so you can inspire others to try the Clone Tool themselves!
Here are some before/after examples demonstrating how you can replicate or erase objects using PicsArt’s Clone Tool.

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Sabtu, 23 November 2013

Allah Sees the Best In Us

We can't run away from Allāh, and cannot avoid Him. No matter which way we turn, and no matter what we seek besides Allāh, His power and awareness will still be there in front of us.

And when My servants ask you concerning Me, then I am indeed near… (Qurʾān 2:186)

Since we can't run away from Allāh, why not run to Him instead, and be embraced by His guidance, love and care? Let us be happy to meet Allāh, and He will be happy to meet us, as Allāh said in a Hadith Qudsi, “If My servant likes to meet Me, I like to meet him; and if he dislikes to meet Me, I dislike to meet him.” Let us have hope in Him, and call to Him, and we will find the answers we seek.

“Ask and you will be given,” the Prophet ṣallallāhu 'alayhi wa sallam (peace and blessings of Allāh be upon him) said, ”Ask and you will be given.” (Tirmidhi). It's such a simple formula, isn't it? Ask and you will be given. And yet we sometimes complicate it, or neglect it, and then we wonder at the lack of fulfillment in our lives.

Or do those who do evil deeds think they can outrun Us? Evil is what they judge.
Whoever should hope for the meeting with Allāh – indeed, the term decreed by Allāh is coming. And He is the Hearing, the Knowing.
And whoever strives only strives for [the benefit of] himself. Indeed, Allāh is free from need of the worlds.
And those who believe and do righteous deeds – We will surely remove from them their misdeeds and will surely reward them according to the best of what they used to do. (Qurʾān 29:4-7)

Notice Allāh's saying that He will reward us according to the best of what we used to do. SubḥānAllāh!

I was recently driving home from Los Banos, in the San Joaquin Valley. The drive takes me through the countryside, and at this time of the year there's a lot to see. The corn has been harvested, and the dry corn stalks are being hewn by huge combines, after which they will be composted or turned into cattle feed. A few farmers still burn the stalks, which is unfortunate as it contributes to the poor air quality here in the Valley.

The grapes are ready for harvest, while the cotton is just beginning to flower. The calves, lambs and goat kids that were born in the spring are gamboling around the fields, while their parents seek shelter from the sun beneath the occasional tree. Late summer is dust-dry here in the Valley, so the San Joaquin and Fresno rivers are sandy beds, and the East Side Bypass is a wide, white gulch. The lakes are down to one third full. The sky is huge and hard, like a sheet of hot aluminum.

My trip also takes me near my father's grave. He passed away in November 2012, and is buried in the Islamic cemetery north of Madera, out in the country. I find myself wondering how much he sees of the activity around him. Does he witness the growth of the new crops and the death of the old? Is he aware of the hot summer breeze that blows in late afternoon, and the way it whips the palm leaves, and creates dust-devils on the plowed fields?

When I visit with my mother and my daughter, does he hear my daughter's hesitant, “As-salamu alaykum Giddo…” Does he hear my mother's sobs, or my recitation of Sūrat'l-Fātiḥah?

Or is his gaze firmly fixed on the vastness of the ākhirah (Hereafter) in all its glory and terror, unaware of the comings and goings of this material world?

Thinking about this, I wrote a poem and sent it to a few friends. One friend replied that if the dead could indeed see and hear us then she hoped that they saw the best of us, or the perfection within each of us.

What strikes me now is that whether or not the dead can see such things, Allāh can and does! He chooses to reward us according to the best of what we do! He chooses to overlook our faults, and forgive them, and see the beauty in us. He chooses to give us the benefit of the doubt, and to see the pure striving soul within each of us.

I am so touched by that. Why would I not run to Allāh? Why would I not seek His embrace? Al-Wahhāb (The Giver of All) gave us life, and created this amazing world for us, and put love and mercy in our hearts. He did not do so out of capriciousness or vanity, but out of kindness and care, and as part of a grand purpose in which we play a pivotal role. I am humbled to be a part of Allāh's plan, and humbled even to have been given this life, in this world, and the opportunity to strive every day for a Garden beneath which rivers flow, where we will feel no sadness, nor will we grieve.

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Whatsapp vs BBM

Name any popular social media platform you can think of, Facebook, Twitter, Linkedin and others. All you could see were updates of people sharing their BBM pins. There were obvious jokes of why would one want BBM when we already have WhatsApp and replies of BBM lovers who though gave up their blackberries still miss the BBM chat experience.

Let's take a quick look at what is this that has the world in frenzy?

In recent past everybody has been seeing tons of BBM pins floating around FB, twitter and other popular social media platforms. Many have even made various jokes around it and everybody is asking a question as to why people are so much crazy about BBM when they have WhatsApp.

The substantial headstart that WhatsApp has over Blackberry's popular messenger service BBM is difficult to ignore. With the latter ultimately making the service available on Apple's iOS and Android-backed devices many might be wondering if BBM will manage to topple WhatsApp's leading position. After all, more than 10 million downloads within 24 hours of BBM being launched for non-BlackBerry handsets cannot be ignored.

We have done a quick comparison of few key features for WhatsApp and BBM.

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How To Make Your Dream Come True

It has been said that whatever you can dream of, you can achieve.There is no greater time than now to begin to live your dreams. Your dreams are achievable if you will put in the effort needed to make it work. Your mind is such that it can only conceive what it can achieve, whatever the dream is your mind believes it can achieve it, but you have to agree with your mind that you can achieve it, so that when you are in agreement you can work together to achieve your dreams.

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Be specific about your dream. The first thing you need to do is to be specific about your dream, at least the one you want to work on now, the way to be very specific about your dreams is to write them in your dream journal
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Turn your dream into a burning desire. You will need to turn your dream into a burning desire in your heart. A strong will to achieve your dreams boosts self-confidence and will aid you in pulling through some of the worst stages of life. The way to turn your dream into a burning desire is to believe that your dream is achievable and that you can achieve it.
Once it has become a burning desire you are no longer to refer to it as a dream, because the very nature of a dream gives the impression that it is not real.
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Turn your burning desires into goals. You then need to turn your burning desire into a goal. You had earlier turned your dream into a burning desire because you believe it can be done and that you can do it. But to actually turn it into a goal, you need to believe that you will do it. This kind of believing is based on your commitment that if it can be done then I can do it, and if I can do it then I will do it now. The thing about goals is they are time sensitive, so adding a time frame helps you to accept the fact that you are committed to doing it.
Once you have turned your burning desire into a goal, you are no longer to call it a burning desire or a dream, it is now your goal in life, a goal that must be achieved by you.
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Plan. Create a strategic plan of action. You will need to create a strategy for the accomplishment of your goals; this strategy is usually called a plan or a plan of action.
There is no universal plan of action for everyone, each strategy depends on the person involve and the goals they wish to accomplish, because of this fact the key to creating your own working plan of action lies in you and you need to seek it out.
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Take action now.Once you have turned your goals into a plan of action tailored after you, because its creation took your person into consideration, you need to take action and utilize every opportunity that will come your way.
The way of the universe is that like attracts like and where there is a need, the universe seems to find a way of meeting those needs through opportunities. You need to be prepared for them as you take action on your plans to achieve your goals which will help you actualize your burning desire and make your dream a reality.
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Set short-term goals. Divide your main goal into sub-divisions, and set time periods for achieving each of them.
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Review your progress regularly. Review your progress regularly and check:
If you have achieved your goals for that time period.
If you still have a desire to follow your dream.
If you have deviated from the path toward fulfilling your goal.
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Knowledge;Knowing exactly what is your dream and accepting that is exactly what you want. (e.g => Knowing that you want good grades) Also learn about the law of attraction. This law states that what you focus all your attention to is what you will receive.
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Visualization; Have a vivid picture in your mind or video of how your dream will be when you accomplish it. Tell yourself that you have already received it (this is focusing on your subconscious mind which is 5/6 of your thinking mind on your goal which will lead your inner reality to becoming a physical reality.
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Be confident; Have no doubts in yourself what so ever,this will lead to reverse thinking which will surround you with negative energy and you will receive a corresponding negative result.
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Meditate; Relax and calm your mind,soul and body. This will also help with step
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Using the above steps and work towards your dream with all your focus,concentration and confidence. Your goal will become a reality sooner that you could have ever imagined.

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Why Do I Wear Hijab

When I cover myself, I make it virtually impossible for people to judge me according to the way I look. I cannot be categorized because of my attractiveness or lack thereof.

Compare this to life in today’s society: We are constantly sizing one another up on the basis of our clothing, jewelry, hair and makeup. What kind of depth can there be in a world like this? Yes, I have a body, a physical manifestation upon this Earth. But it is the vessel of an intelligent mind and a strong spirit. It is not for the beholder to leer at or to use in advertisements to sell everything from beer to cars!

Because of the superficiality of the world in which we live, external appearances are so stressed that the value of the individual counts for almost nothing. It is a myth that women in today’s society are liberated! What kind of freedom can there be when a woman can not walk down the street without every aspect of her physical self being “checked out”?

When I wear the hijab I feel safe from all of this. I can rest assured that no one is looking at me and making assumptions about my character from the length of my skirt. There is a barrier between me and those who would exploit me. I am first and foremost a human being, equal to any man, and not vulnerable because of my sexuality.

One of the saddest truths of our time is the question of the beauty myth and female self-image. Reading popular teenage magazines, you can instantly find out what kind of body image is “in” or “out.” and if you have the “wrong” body type, well, then, you’re just going to have to change it, aren’t you? After all, there is no way that you can be overweight and still be beautiful.

Look at any advertisement. Is a woman being used to sell the product? How old is she? How attractive is she? What is she wearing? More often than not, that woman will be no older than her early 20s, taller, slimmer and more attractive than average, dressed in skimpy clothing. Why do we allow ourselves to be manipulated like this?

Whether the 90s woman wishes to believe it or not, she is being forced into a mold. She is being coerced into selling herself, into compromising herself. This is why we have 13-year-old girls sticking their fingers down their throats and overweight adolescents hanging themselves.

When people ask me if I feel oppressed, I can honestly say no. I made this decision out of my own free will. I like the fact that I am taking control of the way other people perceive me. I enjoy the fact that I don’t give anyone anything to look at and that I have released myself from the bondage of the swinging pendulum of the fashion industry and other institutions that exploit females.

My body is my own business. Nobody can tell me how I should look or whether or not I am beautiful. I know that there is more to me than that. I am also able to say “no” comfortably when people ask me if I feel as though my sexuality is being repressed. I have taken control of my sexuality. I am thankful I will never have to suffer the fate of trying to lose/gain weight or trying to find the exact lipstick shade that will go with my skin color. I have made choices about what my priorities are and these are not among them.

So next time you see me, don’t look at me sympathetically. I am not under duress or a male-worshipping female captive from those barbarous Arabic deserts! I’ve been liberated.

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Reasons for Wearing Hijab

So why do we wear ḥijāb and how do we answer the “Why do you wear that?” question in a manner that not only explains why, but also seizes a beautiful, golden opportunity to open a da'wah discussion with someone.

Questioner: “Why do you wear that?”

Muslim Sister: (smiles) “Well, I'm a Muslim, and as a Muslim, the most important thing to me is to believe that God is One and to worship Him alone (tawḥīd mentioned, check). That also includes following the guidelines that God asked of us. The reason I wear this is because it's something God asked me to do. So that's the REASON I wear this, however, after choosing to wear it, you realize there are countless benefits that come with it, among them are:

(The following points are ones I've found hit home the most with people. At this point, you can gauge what you think will resonate most with the person, and based on the amount of time you have, you can choose to mention some or all of these points)

1. Blessing of modesty: (If the questioner is a woman, going on a modesty rant will usually hit home hard.) This point can go something along the lines of: “When I dress like this, I'm forcing men to look at me for who I am, for my personality, and for what I say, rather than how cute I look that day.”

2. Identifies you as a Muslim: “Wearing ḥijāb identifies me as a Muslim, so anywhere I go, anyone who sees me immediately knows what I believe and what I stand for.”

3. Something found in all Abrahamic religious tradition: “A lot of people are confused by what I wear and find it to be something weird and strange. It's interesting because if you look at righteous women throughout history, they were always covered in a similar way. Even today, nuns and Orthodox Jews cover their hair.” Many times it's effective to ask: “Have you ever seen a picture of Mary, the mother of Prophet Jesus?” (Note: This also shows that Muslims believe in Prophet Jesus) “What is she wearing in the picture?” Their jaw drops when they realize she is wearing ḥijāb.

4. Dress code for both genders: “Allāh gave both women and men a dress code. The reason it's different is because of physical differences and differences in the way each gender thinks.”

At the end of the day, although it's very important to know why we wear ḥijāb and know how to explain it to others, having the answer down is not enough. We know that da'wah by actions is ALWAYS more. The fact is, when you look the way we do, people are always watching you and what you do. You could act in a certain way or do something good that sticks in someone's mind and eventually brings them to Islam, or vice versa. This doesn't mean that we should wait until we get to a “high enough level” before beginning to wear ḥijāb, but it's merely a reminder for us to remain conscious of our behavior and our actions.

Interestingly enough, even the way we choose to wear ḥijāb is da'wah. I've had countless non-Muslim women approach me and ask me why some Muslim women wear skin tight clothing or full faces of make-up while wearing a scarf on their head. We would never expect non-Muslims to notice anything like this, but interestingly enough, they do.

Lastly, as Muslim women, having confidence and being well spoken and firm in our beliefs and actions has a huge impression on non Muslims. It makes them respect you and want to know more, rather than pity you and feel sorry for you.

At the end of the day, it's all about our actions while wearing ḥijāb, the level of confidence in our demeanor when we explain our religion, the manner in which we choose to wear ḥijāb, and lastly (and least importantly) how we answer why we wear ḥijāb.

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Kamis, 14 November 2013

How To Respect Ourself

Every Human being is endowed and attributed in some way or other. Every human being is a cause for creating joy for another human being. It could be a close relative,friend, or acquaintance. You may be doing this intentionally,unintentionally, knowingly or unknowingly. This in itself is a cause for soul fulfillment.
This is can be a beginning and a cause for respecting yourself. if you explore further, You will find that you are better endowed than you think you are, and you need to respect yourself for that.
A lack of self-respect can prevent you from fulfilling your potential and developing healthy relationships that don’t devolve into power struggles. Take the following steps to learn how to respect yourself.
1) Think about what it means to respect someone. The qualities that we respect vary from person to person, and the way we express it varies from culture to culture. Generally, we respect people who have more experience and are more accomplished than ourselves. But there is also a basic level of respect that most people will agree is a right, and does not need to be earned. Consider what that kind of respect (which we'll refer to as basic respect) entails. Here are some widely agreed upon signals of respect:

You don't steal from, harm, or insult them.
You are honest with them.
You listen to what they say, consider their opinion, and avoid interrupting them.
2) Practice basic respect towards yourself. We often do things to ourselves that we would never dream of doing to someone we care about. (When’s the last time you called a friend ugly, told them they weren’t good enough, discouraged them from following their dreams, or sabotaged their happiness?) Whatever you believe to be respect, apply it to yourself. Don't harm yourself. Don't insult yourself. Don't steal from yourself (like recklessly putting everything on credit; you're essentially taking money from your future self, because you'll have to pay up eventually). Be honest with yourself. Develop your own opinions (see How to Be a Skeptic and How to Think for Yourself) and don’t be afraid to stand by them.
3) Recognize when people disrespect you and take steps to stop it. A person with self respect doesn't allow others to treat them badly, and would rather not associate with someone who is disrespectful. This might seem obvious, but there are many times when we accept being treated badly (in both big and small ways) because we believe the person doesn't know any better, or because we're not willing to let that person go, or because we're too down on ourselves to believe we deserve better. When someone doesn't give you basic respect, you need to be able to say, in one way or another, "it was nice talking with you.I must go now and I wish you a nice day ." Can you say that, and mean it? Can you turn your back on someone who's clearly shown that they don't respect you? Once you do, you'll feel your sense of self-respect go up.
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Minggu, 10 November 2013

Why We Need To Learn From Our Mistakes

The most important life lessons we will ever learn will be from the bad decisions we make. Time and experience can be excellent teachers when you actually learn a lesson from your poor decisions. Experience comes from our way of living, understanding and the adjustments we make. It also comes from suffering, agony and the ordeals we are afflicted by.We need to learn from our mistakes so that we do not run the risk of repeating them. We must develop the wisdom and sense to make good decisions and choices. Good judgment will only develop if you truly learn from your mistakes. Unfortunately, for many people, it takes a few repeats of the same mistake to learn the lesson.
Good or bad, experiences are what help us learn lessons and form a better sense of judgment. Bad judgment seems to stick with us longer as a lesson learned because we really do not want to keep repeating it. Wisdom is the knowledge you can gain from making mistakes.
“Anyone who has never made a mistake has never tried anything new.” - Albert Einstein
I wholeheartedly believe that good judgment comes from experimentation with life. That includes poor decisions and bad judgment to ensure that good judgment might be recognized by a person and will remain a permanent fixture in their lives. If you have a difficult time making decisions or always blame your bad outcomes on others, then you have not learned anything. If you have not learned from anything, you will continue to have bad experiences that will cause you to make more poor judgments. Until you realize that, you will continue to suffer.
You can only learn from the error of your ways if you recognize the fact that you fcked up. Too many people remain in denial and place the blame on others. The minute you take responsibility for yourself is when the learning process will begin. When you admit your mistakes, you hasten your learning development.
Everything we are exposed to in life presents us with another valuable lesson. Not only can you learn from your own experiences, but also the experiences of the people you surround yourself with. Sometimes these can serve as the most meaningful lessons since it allows you to observe behaviors from an objective standpoint.
“Well, we all make mistakes, so just put it behind you. We should regret our mistakes and learn from them, but never carry them forward into the future with us.”
Growth starts as soon as you recognize your mistake and how to prevent it from happening again. Everyone makes mistakes in life, this is normal, but how you learn from them is how you develop your judgment. The only way to prevent making a mistake a second time is to learn. If you don’t, you will be making that same error again and again until you are forced to learn.
Some mistakes can be lethal, some can cost you money or friends, and some are inconsequential and could be ignored. Regardless of what type of error you made, it needs to be acknowledged and analyzed to prevent it from occurring again.
he lessons lie in the way we interpret our errors. If you keep repeating the same patterns, how can you ever expect your results to differ? It is much more beneficial to face the mistake than to escape from it because it will never be solved by itself. Looking at mistakes and working toward understanding them will promote progress and insight. It is normal to feel shameful about an error you have made, but you cannot hide in denial. If you do that, your progress will only be hindered.

“Mistakes are a part of being human. Appreciate your mistakes for what they are: precious life lessons that can only be learned the hard way. Unless it’s a fatal mistake, which, at least, others can learn from.”
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